Being, Living, and Loving in Abundance

Beloved, as we come to the close of this series, we find ourselves deep-diving into the essence of self-love as our personal power on our spiritual path. This marks the perfect moment for us to explore the profound concept of being, living, and loving from the space of abundance. The realization that embracing abundance over scarcity isn't just a powerful expression of self-love; it's also a choice that transforms our perception of the world and shapes the way we show up in it.  

Before we delve into the intricacies of this passage, let's review a few key points. Being abundance involves our sincere desire to fully embrace our authentic selves—no facades, no pretenses. It necessitates tapping into both our strengths and vulnerabilities, calling for the courageous sharing of our genuine selves. A crucial aspect of embracing abundance is maintaining transparency and honesty, even in the face of potential fears of hurt or mistreatment. Choosing to express ourselves abundantly is a demanding commitment, yet it stands as an essential element for healing and evolution. The extent to which we can be open-hearted, transparent, and vulnerable directly influences our capacity to thrive in abundance. Operating from a scarcity mindset constrains our lives and limits our potential. On the flip side, embracing abundance opens the door to a multitude of blessings and opportunities. 

Living abundance means every word, choice, and action springs from a state of inner abundance. It's a powerful choice to approach life with a mindset of plenty, attracting positivity and prosperity into every aspect of our being. In this sense, our words transform into affirmations, our choices open doors to boundless possibilities, our conversations become sources of upliftment, and our actions embody the belief of entitlement that is respectful to ourselves, everyone involved, and the world. By living life from this perspective, we radiate positivity, effortlessly attract success, and empower ourselves to share our unique gifts with the world  

The most significant challenge in our lives, particularly as Black women, lies in leading lives where the love we generously offer to the world overflows abundantly. Embracing this journey means recognizing that our capacity to give and receive love is boundless, creating a ripple effect that positively impacts not only our lives but also the lives of those around us. It's hard to deny the fact that we live in a world that doesn’t always treat us very kindly. Yet, when we encounter situations that starkly contrast love, kindness, peace, harmony, and joy, those instances also serve as guideposts directing us back our resilient capacity to love unconditionally.  

Living, being, and loving ourselves and others from the state of abundance largely shapes the path we take toward deeper self-love. Embarking on the journey to cultivate abundance might require some practice and the intentional unlearning of conditioned beliefs. However, when we decide to craft a life filled with abundance, we automatically illuminate our inherent worth beyond mere material gains – as in love, joy, peace, respect, kindness, etc.  

Depending on circumstance, environment, or relationship, we are often compelled to focus on things that trigger sentiments of lack or the fear of not having or being enough. Thus, it's crucial we develop a practice of shifting our perspectives and embracing the abundant possibilities that life offers. We are always placing our focus and energy somewhere, so it may as well be on the positive possibilities that exist just as abundantly as the negative. Embracing the choice to channel our energy intentionally allows us to navigate life with optimism and resilience. 

Without question, being intentional about maintaining an outlook or mindset of abundance leads to prosperity and success. By perceiving life through the lens of positive possibility and aligning ourselves with the energies of abundance, we can manifest realities we most desire.  

Positive Possibilities Always Exist 

Envision the journey of our lives when we embrace the belief that both positive and negative realities coexist in every situation we encounter. Embracing this notion allows us to direct our energy toward cultivating positive solutions and results. Keep in mind that our conscious awareness and intentions play a crucial role in shaping what we choose to focus our mind and energy upon. By embracing this perspective, we grant ourselves the authority to mold our reality according to our intentions and choices. 

The Importance of Contrast 

Unpleasant experiences are not mere hardships, but valuable teachers. Every challenge we encounter carries a lesson and an opportunity for growth. These contrasting experiences help us recognize when we are out of alignment with our desired state of love, peace, optimum health, abundance and prosperity. The discomfort of lacking something—be it money, relationships, or opportunities—serves as a signpost directing us towards alignment. 

Whenever the feelings of scarcity or fear of not having or being enough arise, we have the opportunity to interpret them as a call to look inward. This beckons us to recenter our thoughts, emotions, and actions, aligning them with the potential to shape the reality we truly want. Instead of fixating on what's lacking, we can opt to concentrate on the prospects for positive change. Through this shift in mindset, we tap into the wellspring of creative energy within us, paving the way to manifest the abundance we're aiming for. 

Shifting Perspectives 

To truly love ourselves is to cultivate a relationship of harmony and alignment with the Universe (God, Source, Creator, Love, or the Higher Power of your understanding). Complaining about or fearing what we lack only perpetuates a state of disempowerment. Instead, we can make a conscious effort to shift our perspective towards gratitude. By acknowledging and appreciating what we do have, we open ourselves up to receive even more. 

Gratitude is a powerful practice that aligns us with being vibration of giving and receiving in abundance. When we express gratitude for the present moment and the blessings in our lives, we send a clear signal to the universe that we are open to receiving more of what we desire.   

Staying in Alignment 

By now, it should be easy to understand how self-love is synonymous with alignment. It's the act of recognizing our intrinsic worth and choosing to align ourselves with the truth of abundance and love that already exists within and around us. May I remind you; every negative experience is a gentle nudge to realign ourselves with the current of abundance flowing through the universe. 

As we wholeheartedly adopt the concept of abundance, we come to understand that the path to prosperity is not solely about amassing material possessions. Rather, it revolves around embracing a mentality that draws wealth in its various forms—financial, emotional, and spiritual. Through the consistent selection of thoughts, emotions, and actions that mirror our yearning for abundance, we synchronize ourselves with the innate cadence of life. This alignment allows the current of prosperity to course through us with ease and grace. 

Abundance Explored 

Let's dive a little deeper into the concept of maintaining an abundance perspective as an expression of self-love. As mentioned above, abundance is more than just a surplus of material possessions or wealth; it's a state of being that encompasses every aspect of our lives. When we view abundance through the lens of self-love, we begin to understand its true depth, as well as its transformative, healing, and creative powers. 

At its core, self-love involves recognizing our innate worthiness and embracing ourselves with compassion, kindness, and acceptance. From this foundation of self-love, we naturally gravitate towards an understanding of abundance as a reflection of our inner state, a manifestation of the love and positivity we cultivate within ourselves. Yet, such an understanding also invites us to acknowledge, and then own, the fact that we are inherently deserving of the best that life has to offer. It's understanding that we don't need to chase after external validation or constantly strive to fill an imaginary void. Instead, we recognize that our worthiness is independent of external circumstances, and we are already complete and whole as we are. 

In this respect, abundance covers a multitude of aspects within our lives. The following are key dimensions greatly influenced by our commitment to create abundance and self-love, as well as reframe our outlook on possessions and potential achievements: 

• Spiritual: Spirituality, whether connected to organized religion or personal beliefs, can provide a deep sense of purpose and connection. Abundance on a spiritual level involves cultivating a sense of inner peace, exploring our beliefs, and seeking meaning in life's experiences. It's a reminder that we are part of something greater than ourselves.  

• Material: From a self-loving perspective, material abundance is not about excessive consumption or status symbols. It's about having the resources and comforts that support our well-being and allow us to pursue our passions. We manifest material abundance as an expression of self-care, ensuring that we have what we need to lead a fulfilling life. 
• Emotional: Self-love encourages us to embrace our emotions with authenticity and kindness. Abundance in our emotional lives means cultivating a rich inner landscape of positive feelings—joy, gratitude, compassion, and resilience. It involves nurturing our emotional well-being, recognizing that we deserve to experience a wide range of emotions without judgment. 

• Relationships: Healthy, loving relationships are a cornerstone of a fulfilling life. Embracing abundance in relationships means surrounding ourselves with people who uplift and support us, while also fostering self-love within. It's about setting boundaries, nurturing connections that align with our values, and letting go of toxic dynamics. 

• Opportunity: Abundance also extends to the opportunities that come our way. From a self-loving perspective, we embrace opportunities that align with our passions and aspirations. We don't shy away from growth and challenges, knowing that each experience contributes to our personal development. 

• Time: In our busy lives, time is a precious resource. Viewing time through the lens of self-love means prioritizing activities that nurture our well-being and align with our values. It involves setting aside time for self-care, rest, and activities that bring us joy. 

Ultimately, aligning our quest for deeper self-love with living abundantly is what makes us powerful co-creators of our reality. Acknowledging that our thoughts, beliefs, and actions influence the experiences we attract is a monumental step toward such a realization. By cultivating self-love, we raise our energetic vibration and align ourselves with the frequency of abundance. This alignment leads to a life filled with meaningful experiences, harmonious relationships, and a deep sense of fulfillment.  

So, let's continue to practice self-love, celebrate our worthiness, and open ourselves to the abundance that naturally flows when we embrace the fullness of who we are. 

Until next time, embrace peace and love on the Journey Up! 

Ase`! 

Here's Your Daily Journal Prompt:  

Recall a moment when our joint commitment to self-love had a positive impact on your life. How did embracing abundance shape your experiences and relationships? Share insights on actions or mindset shifts. What lessons can our community learn from your journey towards empowerment and joy? Capture your reflections, celebrating growth and connection in our shared path of self-love.   

One Last Note:  

Stay tuned. The Path and The Power of Self-Love will be available for purchase January 1, 2024. 

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